{"id":208281,"date":"2021-09-08T14:37:27","date_gmt":"2021-09-08T18:37:27","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/?p=208281"},"modified":"2021-09-08T14:37:30","modified_gmt":"2021-09-08T18:37:30","slug":"im-asexual-but-my-partner-is-not","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/video\/im-asexual-but-my-partner-is-not-208281","title":{"rendered":"I\u2019m asexual, but my partner is not"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"is-style-article-kik\">Communication, consent and self-discovery are key to keeping the relationship\u2014and the intimacy\u2014healthy<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-embed is-type-video is-provider-youtube wp-block-embed-youtube wp-embed-aspect-16-9 wp-has-aspect-ratio\"><div class=\"wp-block-embed__wrapper\">\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" title=\"I\u2019m asexual, but my partner is not | Ask Kai | Xtra Magazine\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"https:\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/tOOO57KYMm0?feature=oembed\" frameborder=\"0\" allow=\"accelerometer; autoplay; clipboard-write; encrypted-media; gyroscope; picture-in-picture\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe>\n<\/div><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThere&#8217;s a difference between being willing to have sex that you&#8217;re not immediately excited about so that you can build emotional intimacy with your partner&#8230; and just having sex because if you don&#8217;t, you&#8217;re afraid that the partnership will end. There&#8217;s a fine line there.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>It\u2019s our latest in the video series \u201c<a href=\"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/series\/ask-kai-quick-tips-for-the-apocalypse\">Ask Kai: Quick Tips for the Apocalypse,<\/a>\u201d offering relationship advice for those in a hurry.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Communication, consent and self-discovery are key to keeping the relationship\u2014and the intimacy\u2014healthy<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":823,"featured_media":208282,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"video","meta":{"editorial_slug":"146","_editorial_slug":"146","exclude_from_latest_block":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[23],"contributors":[498],"topic":[159],"clients":[],"series":[146],"timeliness":[],"editorial_format":[2088],"type-of-work":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208281"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/823"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=208281"}],"version-history":[{"count":3,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208281\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":208287,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/208281\/revisions\/208287"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/208282"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=208281"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=208281"},{"taxonomy":"contributors","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/contributors?post=208281"},{"taxonomy":"topic","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic?post=208281"},{"taxonomy":"clients","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/clients?post=208281"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=208281"},{"taxonomy":"timeliness","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/timeliness?post=208281"},{"taxonomy":"editorial_format","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/editorial_format?post=208281"},{"taxonomy":"type-of-work","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/type-of-work?post=208281"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}