{"id":275401,"date":"2025-07-24T14:00:12","date_gmt":"2025-07-24T18:00:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/?p=275401"},"modified":"2025-07-24T15:40:40","modified_gmt":"2025-07-24T19:40:40","slug":"queer-youth-mental-health-suicide-hotlines","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/health\/mental-health\/queer-youth-mental-health-suicide-hotlines-275401","title":{"rendered":"Queer youth need suicide hotlines more than ever. The Trump admin is gutting them"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"is-style-article-kik\">Failure to provide adequate care to queer youth stands to have a generational impact<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-drop-cap\">Last Thursday, July 17, the Trump administration<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetrevorproject.org\/blog\/closed-trump-admin-officially-shuts-down-the-988-suicide-crisis-lifelines-lgbtq-youth-specialized-services\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> formally removed services<\/a> for queer and trans teenagers from the National Suicide Hotline. The services had been provided by The Trevor Project, a long-standing suicide prevention and mental health crisis service for LGBTQ2S+ young people, and though The Trevor Project still exists\u2014as do its<a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetrevorproject.org\/get-help\/?gad_source=1&amp;gad_campaignid=20188209483&amp;gbraid=0AAAAADsmOdYh328t3zIUeEe4JYZ1xOoqF&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjwyvfDBhDYARIsAItzbZHVsaNNzThOt_ij-It-9B_W879USn5NsVFi8qc8jNFIWAwJeZjj1lsaAugEEALw_wcB\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> emergency counselling services,<\/a> which you can call, text or chat right now if you are in crisis\u2014the lack of federal funding will make it much harder for them to serve every queer teen who needs help.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A lot of queer teens need help right now\u2014and trans youth, in particular, are extremely vulnerable. Their already high rates of suicidal ideation have been rising in response to bans on gender-affirming care; a 2024 survey from The Trevor Project found that in states with anti-trans laws,<a href=\"https:\/\/www.npr.org\/sections\/shots-health-news\/2024\/09\/25\/nx-s1-5127347\/more-trans-teens-attempted-suicide-after-states-passed-anti-trans-laws-a-study-shows\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> suicide attempts by trans youth had risen<\/a> by up to 72 percent. The recent<a href=\"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/power\/politics\/us-v-skrmetti-decision-protest-274637\"> Supreme Court judgment in <em>United States v. Skrmetti<\/em><\/a><em>,<\/em> which ruled that bans on puberty blockers and other gender-affirming care for minors did not constitute discrimination, makes it likely that the number will keep going up.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThe day after the 2024 presidential election, The Trevor Project saw a nearly <a href=\"https:\/\/www.thetrevorproject.org\/blog\/the-trevor-project-shares-post-election-day-crisis-contact-volume-data\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">700 percent increase<\/a> in volume across our crisis lines,\u201d says communications director Zach Eisenstein, in a statement provided to <em>Xtra<\/em>. It was the highest daily volume of calls since The Trevor Project began offering crisis services. Queer youth are losing access to mental healthcare and crisis services right when they need them most, leaving the queer community scrambling to support its youngest and most vulnerable members in the absence of professional care.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cWe cannot just easily replicate The Trevor Project,\u201d says Dr. Diane Ehrensaft, a developmental and clinical psychologist who specializes in affirming care for trans and gender-expansive youth. It takes resources and money to train gender-affirming providers and connect them with the community. Worse: non-profits, as a whole, are facing deep cuts to their funding under the Trump administration, and queer-focused non-profits are at particular risk. This means that, even though there are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.out.com\/news\/lgbtq-youth-hotlines-still-available#rebelltitem8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">other organizations and hotlines providing crisis support<\/a> to queer youth, they too are endangered.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cThis is a really very challenging and potentially damaging time,\u201d says Dr. Caitlin Ryan of the Family Acceptance Project, which trains families to affirm queer and trans children. \u201cBecause not only are these services needed, but services like the [national suicide hotline] can\u2019t be replaced in the same way. There\u2019s this national absence. There\u2019s an absence at the state level, the local level, the community level, or even at the level of a local program that gets some funding from the federal government that\u2019s passed through to the states.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>The Trump administration\u2019s rationale for cutting the hotline has been that it is choosing not to \u201csilo\u201d suicide prevention services\u2014queer youth can just call the same hotline as anyone else. There are a wide variety of reasons this won\u2019t work, says Ehrensaft.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For one thing, trans and queer youth often have different underlying causes for their suicidal crises than their cis and straight counterparts: \u201cIt\u2019s not simply because they can\u2019t get what they want,\u201d says Ehrensaft. \u201cIt\u2019s because of their sense that people don\u2019t want them to be alive. They would like to erase them.\u201d Without specific training, therapists can wind up aggravating that crisis: \u201cThey\u2019re misgendering kids,\u201d Ehrensaft says. \u201cThey miss the boat if they don\u2019t have good training and specifically understand what gender minority stress is and how it could lead to an acute mental health moment.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Failure to provide adequate care to queer youth stands to have a generational impact. Trauma incurred in childhood is particularly damaging, and can be incredibly difficult to deal with in later life. The early-childhood stressors<a href=\"https:\/\/www.cdc.gov\/aces\/about\/index.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> known as ACEs<\/a>\u2014Adverse Childhood Experiences, such as abuse, neglect or witnessing violence within the home\u2014can harm children\u2019s early brain development and immune systems, leading not only to adult mental illness or suicide, but to increased rates of cancer, heart disease and diabetes.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Unsurprisingly, homophobia and transphobia have similar effects on queer youth. Research provided to <em>Xtra <\/em>by the Family Acceptance Project finds that non-affirming homes are linked not only to suicidality, but to homelessness, run-ins with the juvenile justice system, substance abuse and higher rates of STIs. Turning the culture toxic for trans and queer children while cutting them off from specialized support, means not only that more children will die\u2014though they will\u2014 but also that the survivors are likely to have more difficult and painful adult lives.\u00a0<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-pullquote\"><blockquote><p>&#8220;The vast majority of queer mental health care throughout history has just been this: queer people finding ways to support each other in the face of a world that is radically opposed to our thriving.&#8221;<\/p><\/blockquote><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Now, here is the good news: Though childhood trauma can significantly decrease the survivor\u2019s chances of a healthy and happy adult life, receiving childhood<em> support<\/em> can significantly raise them. Even if we cannot replicate or replace the full impact of the services being cut right now, we can provide emergency support for community members and their families, and that will make an impact.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For actual therapists, this means engaging in more pro bono work and outreach. \u201cI think it\u2019s going to take a level of volunteerism for many of us,\u201d says Ehrensaft. \u201cIn terms of being a mental health provider, the way we were all trained is to stay in your office and let people come to you \u2026<strong> <\/strong>If you do the work we\u2019re doing, you have to either train yourself to step out of your office into the community, to be part of advocacy, or if you can\u2019t do it, support the people who are.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>For parents, now is the time to double down on support of their queer and trans kids. It does matter, even when you feel like it doesn\u2019t. Affirming parents\u2014particularly the parents of trans children\u2014are also under particular stress right now, as you would be if all the most powerful people in the United States government decided to kill your children, and creating support for them is crucial. Luckily, the increased cultural awareness of queer and trans youth means those support structures are more widely available.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u201cLGBTQ2S+ community centres, increasingly, are providing support groups that just weren\u2019t in place only a few years ago,\u201d says Ryan. \u201cBoth peer-related groups for the youth and the children to get support as well as support for the family. So finding other families to connect with is one of the most important things that [parents] can do, self-educating to learn about what\u2019s happening in their community.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>If you don\u2019t have a support group, you may be able to create one. Mental health journalist Sandy Ernest Allen tells me he\u2019s been focusing on getting queer and trans people over to his house. It\u2019s not a support group, but it\u2019s a group that is supportive, and it helps. For suicidality, in particular, just having non-judgmental spaces in which to discuss those feelings can be life-saving. Allen mentions the work of the peer-based support group Alternatives to Suicide: \u201cThe idea was [that] it\u2019s not a room where if you mention the fact that you have these thoughts or you\u2019ve had these ideas or you have this history, that you\u2019re going to get some diagnosis or be locked up \u2026 Kind of like AA is for drunks, this is a room for people who think about suicide.\u201d&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"is-style-end\">The vast majority of queer mental health care throughout history has just been this: queer people finding ways to support each other in the face of a world that is radically opposed to our thriving. We can\u2019t replace The Trevor Project\u2019s hotline or fully replicate the mental health effect of a supportive community. We can\u2019t substitute for a loving family or a school where you\u2019re not bullied. We can\u2019t perform therapy if we\u2019re not therapists (please, don\u2019t try). But countless children have been saved by having one safe adult who was willing to check in on them, ask how they\u2019re doing and honestly listen to them. We, as queer children who survived into adulthood, can be those people now\u2014so that those kids can survive, and care for the ones who come after them, when it\u2019s time.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Failure to provide adequate care to queer youth stands to have a generational impact<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1200,"featured_media":275403,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"editorial_slug":"5","_editorial_slug":"5","exclude_from_latest_block":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[16,5],"contributors":[1989],"topic":[106,142],"clients":[],"series":[],"timeliness":[61],"editorial_format":[33,24],"type-of-work":[2530],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/275401"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1200"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=275401"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/275401\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":275413,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/275401\/revisions\/275413"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/275403"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=275401"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=275401"},{"taxonomy":"contributors","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/contributors?post=275401"},{"taxonomy":"topic","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/topic?post=275401"},{"taxonomy":"clients","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/clients?post=275401"},{"taxonomy":"series","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/series?post=275401"},{"taxonomy":"timeliness","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/timeliness?post=275401"},{"taxonomy":"editorial_format","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/editorial_format?post=275401"},{"taxonomy":"type-of-work","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/xtramagazine.com\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/type-of-work?post=275401"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}